I don't spend a lot of time keeping up with the Seduction Commmunity, but the Mystery Method is a classic handbook for meeting women. From Porn, with the figures removed. Greene explains seduction strategies for different personality types, then he presents historical and literary examples of how these strategies have worked. Reading a site like this makes it clear how some erotic writers have a compulsion to write about every single sexual escapade in their life real and imaginary. Five Girls by Riain Grey is remarkably evocative prose poem about sexual encounters.
One reads partially for self-discovery; one asks, "Why do I find X or Y arousing?
ASSTR - The Alt.Sex.Stories Text Repository
I haven't had time to sample any of the free ebooks except for the MC Radiance titles, but I'm sure there are gems waiting to be discovered. Well, at least sometimes. Stories are mirrored here. However, occasionally it is fun to read the random story by the random ordinary Joe Schmoe or Johanna Shmoe. Will it always be there for you and your sticky-pantsed crotch-rubbing?